Friday, February 8, 2013

Controversy Controversy.


Controversy.

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"I'd rather people love me or hate me than have no opinion of me.
Indifference is scary."
Lady Gaga


 


"In order to be irreplacable 
one must always be different."
Coco Chanel 



"If I worried about everything
that everyone said,
I will not be a good artist."
Lady Gaga




  
"I'm tough,
ambitious,
and I know exactly what I want.
If that makes me a bitch, okay."
Madonna


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Photography, MUA, and Wardrobe by Akib Aryou


Friday, February 1, 2013

Controversy Controversy (Prologue)



So, this post is a response to the controversy about me that arised in the end of January.

I was using one of the photos in my about-to-be-published photography portfolio as my Twitter ava, which then led into arguments. Most people discussed about the use of makeup and my choice of being topless. Some of my friends supported my courage, stating that it was my artistic freedom and nothing is provocating from my picture. But many are criticizing the way I took the picture, deemed it was inappropriate for a high-school student and potential for triggering perversion.

I had discussed the deed with my closest friends in different perspectives and from that, I could understand the controversy better. I will not condemn my critics as I truly believe in freedom of speech (which applies in everyone, including them) but I will not keep being silent at all. So hereby my explanation.

The pictures was meant for artistic purposes only and not for any other purpose. The sole reason of why did I take the photograph topless was because I felt more comfortable in expressing myself and my movements without any shirt, since I have no skin-tight clothes. I am proud of my body and its shape, regardless its flaws and imperfections, a principle that I have held for so long. I have never talked about this case but trust me, I am not promoting nudity and still have a full respect towards boys and girls who cover temselves.

I also have to say that I am completely sorry for those who had been uncomfortable with the ava pictures and completely gratituous to those who respected my choice. I know some of you guys, contrary to me, were unfamiliar with such pictures nor ever had any acquintances who did such shoot. But I will be more thank you guys if you can understand that the photoshoot was not something 'uncommon' for me and I would never thought that it was inappropriate.

So, for those, who demands that the pictures are pornographic or plain pervert, trust me: I am not that type of guy. I do not believe in such cheap self-promotion of selling breasts and butts for sexual arousal tendencies and I will never do such. What I am trying to say is that there is a big difference between Paris Hilton's A Night In Paris with Rooney Mara's The Girl With the Dragoon Tattoo. Please differ pornography from art as both are two different substance.

Thank you for respecting each of our choices and may this helped us broaden our perspectives.

With all my respect and love,
Akib Aryou.

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Checkout this blog at February 9th, 2013, to see my next photoshoot, 'Controversy'.


Wednesday, January 23, 2013

#HBDKakDira



From left to right, up and down:
Della, Bila, Audi, me


Kak Dira Gusta is my senior announcer in JogjaFamily Radio, who mentors us high school announcers in the radio's teenage segment, Zona Pelajar. She is getting her birthday today, January 24th, 2013. As she is having her vacation today, I collaborate with my friend, Christy Priskila, to gather the photographs of those who ever joined and currently in the Zona PelajarThe segment have been lasted for two years and have been passed through three generations! I joined the segment at 2011, the second generation, and now become the oldest to still airing. So certainly some of us had graduated last year, but it is totally delighting to know that they were still eager to send their pictures!

Kak Dira have been a great mentor for us. For me personally, I could not imagine what will I be know if she did not choose me to be a high school announcer two years ago. The times in JogjaFamily under her nurturing taught me to be strong-willed, ontime, confident, and respect others. I have a very good time there, meet many people, yet learn so many life values. I was very lucky to know her; I think I would never be able to thank her enough for good things in Zona Pelajar!

So, happy birthday, Kak Dira! Know that me and my friends, your 'children', loves you very much. May God light your path and by your side in every step.

Lots, lots, and lots of love,
Akib Aryou.